Tuesday, February 14, 2012

A Song For Everyone

It's Valentine's day, a day dreaded by guys like me because they had to spend...if girls weren't so greedy it wouldn't be such a big deal to buy (any) gift. This was also compounded by the infedility of most guys. There were so many girls to consider on this day, both the ones that played regular matches and those on bench (with the hope of something happening). I've decided to give out something...a song for (everyone). I recorded few lines of selected songs, dedicating 'em to girls. Each girl got a song that represented how I could describe our relationship and what we could make out of it. These are few of 'em.
Nina: "Don't Let Go (Love)" by En Vogue
There are just some girls who pull you close just to push you away. You feel you are dating or could date but never 100 percent certain. Yet you had to consider giving them a Val gift, hoping maybe, just maybe that might make 'em commit. So...
"what's it gonna be cause i can't pretend, don't you wanna be more than friends, hold me tight and don't let go, don't let go, you have the right to lose control, don't let go"
Chi Chi: "Always On Time" by Ja Rule
There are some girls you consider buying a gift for Val's day, not because you had an exclusive relationship BUT a FWB type. This song was the one I dedicated to her...
"And when I play you play the same way you freak me baby I fuck you crazy, Then I'm gone...Baby, I'm not always there when you call, but I'm always on time. And I gave you my all, now baby be mine. I'm not always there when you call, but I'm always on time. And I gave you my all, now baby be mine"
Lola: "Cluck Cluck" by The Project G and B
To be honest here, P like this isn't needed but you do it because you can. Coupled by a banging body that makes you just want to bang the body. Some guys still consider girls like these for Val because, you just never know
"I don't want to cause you compications, I just want one night of satisfaction, After tomorrow we can act like nothing happened, Take this invitation, With the metro card at the train station..."
Kofo: "Hang With Me" by Robyn
I like this girl, I really do. But she was the type of babe you had to make sure she was into you before you could risk committing into the relationship. And I was damn sure if she said "I'm ready" we would have a relationship everyone would envy.
"And if you do me right, I'm gonna do right by you. And if you keep it tight, I'm gonna confide in you. I know what's on your mind there will be time for that too, If you hang with me...Just don't fall recklessly, headlessly in love with me 'Cause it's gonna be. All heartbreak, wistfully painful and insanity, If we agree, oh, ooh, woah, you can hang with me"
Eni: "With Every Heartbeat" by Robyn
There are some girls you might consider to get a Val gift despite knowing it was over between you two. You just want to do it, probably to show there was no more hard feelings.
"...Maybe we can make it alright, Maybe we can make it happen baby, We could keep trying but things will never change, So I don't look back, Still I'm dying with every step I take, But I don't look back...We could keep trying but things will never change, So I don't look back..."
D: "Untitled" by Me
So I wrote a song and it very much relates with this girl. Well, she was married and I wouldn't want to tear up what was joined in Holy Matrimony. Yet you feel you could val someone like this on a platonic level. The song doesn't have a title yet but it is done.
"Please pass me down to your son, tell him, someone loves him more than his Dad. And when you tell him about your past, please tell him that I loved you more than his dad...cause I'm not just anyone, and I could have been the one...cause the days you spent it with him but the nights you were creeping with me, so I'm not just anyone."

Toni Braxton: "Marry Me" by Train
A guy has the right to dream, right? Mehn if I could see Ms Braxton I would still do her and we would make wonderful records in the bedroom. Cause...
"Forever can never be long enough for me. To feel like I've had long enough with you. Forget the world now, we won't let them see, But there's one thing left to do, Now that the weight has lifted. Love has surely shifted my way. Marry me, Today and every day. Marry me, If I ever get the nerve to say hello in this cafe, Say you will..."

To ALL MOTHERS: "Hey Mama" by Kanye West
A Val that should be on everyone's recurring list.
"...Since you brought me in this world, let me take you out. To a restaurant, upper echelon, Imma get you a Jag, whatever else you want. Just tell me what kind of S-Type Donda West like? Tell me the perfect color so I make it just right. It don't gotta be Mother's Day, or your birthday, For me to just call and say (Hey Mama), I wanna scream so loud for you, cuz I'm so proud of you, Let me tell you what I'm about to do, (Hey Mama), I know I act a fool but, I promise you I'm goin back to school, I appreciate what you allowed for me, I just want you to be proud of me (Hey Mama)"


  1. where's my song at?!? *walking off in a huff*

    Happy Valentine's Day to u too

    1. I should send it to your email today. Don't mind my sexy voice though.

  2. ade u neva cease to surprise me. Great write up i must say! Thanks 4 putting a smile on ma face. U av surely shown me some LOVE and dt is d gr8test gift of all. HAPPY VAL'S DAY! *winks*

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