Friday, July 18, 2014

Black Wedding Dress

The first mistake anyone can make is an attempt to make everyone happy. Yes, it is only an attempt because it can NEVER happen. Hey, if Jesus Christ could be persecuted, who are you?

All things being equal, shouldn't it be easy to please everyone because the norms have been established. We basically know what the society expect from us, so why is it too difficult to make everyone satisfied with us? People get socialized on how best to talk, act- based on the situation, and we also have the 10 commandments. But even those that adhere to everything might be labeled "hypocrite" or "pretentious" to use a lighter word.

It is established, you can't please everyone...why not do what you want, what makes you happy yet a better person, and damn the norm that states your social limitation...even if it means you rock a black wedding dress.

Saturday, June 21, 2014

When Jesus Say Yes

Facebook post.

A quick one, "Say Yes" by Michelle Williams might be her biggest solo hit yet. +1.5millon Youtube views in <72hours is more than the total views of her previous solo videos.

I like the track, maybe because the chorus was lifted from one of Nigeria's favourite gospel song. Regardless, it was beautiful and all the 'Children came with her style. I mean, even Beyonce rocked a bum short in the video.

The song was produces by Samuel Hamony, a British with Nigerian parents. That might explain the song's source of inspiration. Samuel also produced "Kele Kele Love" and "Love Me (x3)" for Aunty Tiwa Savage.

So...who is the original composer of "When Jesus Say Yes!" with publishing deal? Time to make money.

Friday, June 20, 2014


I understand certain religions identified pre-marital sex as a sin. However, I do not identify is as evil. Evil in this context is the intention to cause harm to another party, also, the harm done can be regarded as evil. I do not label two consenting adults who engage in premarital sex as evil because I cannot identify any harm done.

What I do understand is whatever is [not] permitted sexually between unmarried couples also goes for married couples. Three of them will be mentioned.

First, If you are in a relationship with someone, married/unmarried, you cannot sleep around and expect your partner to pat you in the back- it is called cheating.

Second, the consequence and responsibilities are equal as far as sex is concerned. If the female gets pregnant, the marriage status is not an excuse to avoid responsibility. If the "man" was naturally irresponsible it will be evident regardless. Also, the spread of STDs and STIs is not exclusive to unmarried or married couples. Married couples are even worst hit because you cannot negotiate condom use in your matrimonial bed.

Third, if the girlfriend or wife was not interested in having sex and the "man" decide to force his way- that is rape. Wedding ring is not immunity to that crime.

So why is premarital sex preached to youths as if the end of it will ultimately make the world a better place [maybe].

I do understand every sin has its orgin, what is the origin of fornication that made it a sin?

Sunday, May 18, 2014


Remembering what I should be doing instead of the financial institution I slave...

Friday, May 16, 2014

My Prayer for You Today...

My Prayer for you today is not to collapse at the edge of the finish line. The disappointment of putting all in a task and fail to accomplish in  the end sucks. Makes one feel why bother start. With that said, you know what to

Monday, May 12, 2014

Death Does NOT Care About Your Dreams

Everyone have dreams. The misconception humans have with theirs was it had to come to past before death knocks. Well, death does not care about anyone's dream. Unless the dream was to die someday [doesn't guarantee to know when it strikes].

Deaths is an inevitable occurrence humans deny, unless the world was a movie where only the bad guy dies. Even in Games of Thrones anyone dies regardless of the dreams/plans they had.
With that said, live a bit more today. Express yourself to family and friends and remember this quote from Drake "everybody dies but not everybody lives".

Sunday, April 27, 2014

Strength to Move On

Feeling a bit lost, careless, and irrational. I arrived at that conclusion based on events in April. Things happened that I am not proud of but have to live with it (do I even have a choice?). All I need now- is the strength to move on.