Wednesday, February 22, 2012

After All This Time/ TuFace Annie

Contains lyrics from "After All This Time" performed by Simon Webb.
My first reaction realising TuFace Idibia proposed to Annie Macaulay and she accepted was "Bitch, Please!" This was a guy known for his promiscuity plus his proposal was days after it became news one of his baby mamas was expecting another one. One more thing, he proposed in a night club. That shows how romantic he was after getting tipsy. This guy had the balls despite numerous fucks to propose and the (desperate) girl said "Yes". She went ahead to broadcast her joy on Twitter, "I serve a living God". Like seriously, I know God works in mysterious ways but I don't see it as a blessing a guy proven with multiple offsprings to be sexually irresponsible proposes. In my opinion, it shows desperation on the babe's part to get a Mrs. degree OR LOVE.
I was taking a walk with my ipod on shuffle when "After All This Time" came on...

"After all the broken stones
That were thrown for no good reason
Inside she's loving him still
After all this time

And though her heart bares the scars
No sign of healing, it's all right
She's loving him still
After all this time, oh yeah

Trying to push the past away
Still waiting for the lights to change
She'll try, try for the sake
Of their pride, pride

Learning to barely feel the pain
Thicker the skin, the less the strain
And though it's really hurting
She ain't breaking, breaking, breaking

'Coz she's loving him still
After all this time...".
Yea, after the first verse and chorus, Annie Macaulay came to mind. It was a perfect love song for their situation. Despite the ups and downs, she was loving him still, after all this time. It was a great force that no one would understand except them. I have been (un)fortunate to know people who claim to love the wrong guy despite abuse. It baffles me when they get an engagement ring and glow with joy because they saw marriage as the promise land. As if it was a REWARD for the heartache they had experienced in the hands of the person proposing. Maybe that was how Annie saw it.
BUT, I don't believe in that kind of love. Annie was desperate, tell 'em Ade said so. Her reaction after the proposal showed she desperately wanted a "and they lived happily ever after" in her relationship and I doubt it would happen. I'm expecting TuFace to knock up another lady. Probably their house maid if they had any, IF they got married in the first place. I don't care if you've won 10 Grammys (which he hasn't), if you lack self-control (which promiscuity is a sign) you can't get down with anyone close to me.
With that said, TuFace is from Benue state. Benue is known for high infection of HIV/AIDS.


  1. Ade, I do work with HIV Clinics, highest rate of infections are in the South West (got stats to prove it).

    1. Prof John Idoko DG NACA (2009) "acknowledged that Benue still had the highest prevalence rate of the disease in the country, noting that the official statistics had it that 10 out every 100 persons are positive, with ages ranging from 15 to 49 years. He said the state
      agency for the control of AIDS had been
      strengthened and funded by the state government."

      I didn't say "highest" but I was still right though. Don't try to prove me wrong, even if you don't agree with me just accept that Ade said so.

  2. Ade, you're funny. I thought after the song you would sing kumbaya for them?

  3. I had the intention, but I couldn't deceive myself.

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