Monday, March 12, 2012

Last Nigeria Virgin (pt. 2 Red Rose)

Continued from Last Nigeria Virgin (pt. 1 Green Rose) <--You can click on it

I had friends that disvirgined girls and one word to summarize their experiences was ‘bloody’. I remember one time my guy brought a player over for her debut and they left the room with blood all over the bed sheet. It was as if an animal had been slaughtered. He did the job and had to wash the bed spread alone which wasn’t a nice scene. Now, it was supposed to be my turn. My girlfriend who claimed she was a virgin ran into the bathroom after a round of sex. She didn’t bleed…she ran into the bathroom and closed the door. I didn’t know what was going on in there but I knew the last thing I wanted to see was blood all over my floor. I could hear she was in pain and requested for Panadol which I didn’t have. I suggested getting one at a store a minute from my house but she told me to be patient. She stepped out, no blood, just looking worried. She told me she was feeling pain above the left side of her abdomen and I must have really gone deep. I had to be caring, I had to block off the voice inside me asking why this supposed virgin girlfriend of mine didn’t bleed. I had read not all virgins bleed but this virgin wasn’t tight as well. The chic I wrote about in “Bitch You are Selfish” was way tighter even after countless matches. My thought was interrupted when she said my name.
She told me something I heard for the first time. She talked about reading up somewhere that a girl not disvirgined properly will NEVER enjoy sex. She linked that to the pain she was experiencing and I probably didn’t disvirgin her properly. She suggested we should go for a second round but this time I should hit the spot and she would bleed. I had nothing to lose and with what I had experienced within that last hour she also had nothing to lose. I wore my boot and about to get on the pitch when she suggested I fuck her against the wall. Let me rephrase that, “carry me and fuck me against the wall”. This was a girl that out to make me believe I disvirgined her minutes earlier and now wants the second time she supposedly had sex to be against the wall. At that rate the tenth time she had sex might be while scuberdiving. I tried my best to lift her and take her to cloud nine but the shit wasn’t comfortable. I stopped and adopted conventional porn styles. After that round, I had to go one more just to make sure she was properly disvirgined. Despite the pin point accuracy of my penis I still wasn’t able to make her bleed but I went in with ease. With sex out of the way it was time to talk.

We were silent for a while until she asked why she didn’t bleed. I took that as a rhetorical question. A friend of had been in a similar situation and the girl confessed she lost her virginity the previous week. I hoped she did the same. This my babe stuck to the belief she was a virgin and I disvirgined her. I kept numb on that issue and talked about something else. She called me the next day and accused me of not being caring, that I should have called to ask how she was feeling. She began to frustrate me as she kept playing the ‘is it because you have disvirgined me’ card. I knew how dangerous it was if she deceived herself I was her first. One of my friends was once in such situation. Every time he had an argument with his girlfriend she said, “I curse you with the blood of my virginity I shed on your bed” despite he wasn’t her first. I wasn’t going to let that type of ish happen to me. I got fed up and told her the reasons for the sudden change in behaviour. I told her I always believed she wasn’t one and gave her an opportunity to be upfront, to confess. I gave her the evidence I had but left out the part of her pussy not being tight, that would be my Joker. The following day I did not hear from her. I received a call few days later from her mum.
Her mum told me she saw her daughter crying and she explained what had happened between us. She told me her daughter was indeed a virgin and she could defend her integrity anytime. She was disappointed why I claimed to love the daughter and not trust her. The fact was I never said I loved her but I didn’t tell the mum. The line cut off while she was talking and I called her back to keep hearing why her daughter’s past relationship never worked out because she deprive the boyfriend of sex. She also said her daughter requested to be taken to a doctor to know why she didn’t bleed. I was in a very uncomfortable situation. That was the first time a mother talked to me about having sex with her daughter. It wasn’t a call to insult me but to consider what her daughter said and hopefully make the relationship work. It was like she didn’t feel bad with me fucking her daughter.
The phone call did more harm than good. From that moment I knew the relationship had taken the wrong turn. I don’t mind girls telling their mums about their relationships but there should be no direct link between the mum and the boyfriend. It would only put more pressure on the guy. I made her understand I didn’t appreciate her mum calling me while she defended herself, saying her mum forced her to talk after seeing her in tears. She mentioned telling her mum not to call me but couldn’t explain how she got both my phone numbers. I began to drift away. I couldn’t stand a relationship whose foundation was built on a lie and parental pressure. I saw her days later, she wanted to know the deal between us. Like we were waiting for the first person to voice “it’s over”. While she kept voicing how heartless I was she mentioned she finally bled but didn’t want to tell me. That was almost a week after we had sex her hymen decided to break. That was the final straw and I made her know I would rather believe in fairies than her virginity. I asked her to explain why she wasn’t tight but she avoided that like she didn’t hear. We were in a public place and she began to try stuffs to annoy me. She said she wanted to see me “EXPLODE”. I kept laughing because I knew that wasn’t going to happen. I’m sure [Any] would have told her her actions would only give me something to write about and guess what, it did. 
Like I said in the closing paragraph of“I ‘Just’ Lost it Last Month”
”…Girls, PLEASE, there is no need to add insult to it and lie you haven't fucked. The fact that you are fucking discreetly says a lot already and don't try to be honourable about it. Don’t say shit like “I only have sex with my boyfriend”, “I don’t have sex within a year of dating”, or “I've decided to stop having sex because it messes up relationships”. [FUCK is FUCK]. With that said, "Fuck your guts for uttering those words, BITCH!" 

33 comments:

  1. lol and you are angry because ?
    nice write up

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  2. I'm really really hoping you're not this ignorant / daft.

    MANY / LOADS of girls DO NOT BLEED the first time they have sex.

    There is no requirement that a girl must bleed if she is a virgin. It's only stupid men that don't know any better that think virgin = bleeding.

    Please please educate your friends and tell everyone to stop being ignorant.

    First of all, not all virgins bleed. In fact only SOME virgins bleed.

    Second, not all virgins even have a Hymen


    Some girls are born with NO HYMEN

    MANY girls hymen breaks on it own as a result of SPORTS /. EXERCISE / HORSE RIDING / GYMNASTICS


    Not all virgins are tight. Everyone's vagina is the size IT IS SUPPOSED TO BE.

    If you're having sex with a virgin and she doesn't feel as tight as you expect, it just means your dick is too small naturally for her vagina. It's not a big deal, deal with it or find someone with a smaller vagina.

    Your girlfriend didn't lie to you, but in your ignorance you were a total prick.

    Now you know.

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    1. To be honest, I wished I was that ignorant/daft, that would definitely make me feel happy. Stupid, but happy.

      When I write my experiences, I do omit certain information because I'm not that heartless when I write about other people's life. Like I found out my dick wasn't the first to penetrate. Isn't that the definition of not being a virgin? All I wanted was her to admit, considering she was 4 years older. Call me a child but that hasn't stopped me from achieving a lot.

      Did you read this at all or you just glanced? Wait, don't answer. I'll go with the former. Because you only focused on an issue. Like you saw "Virginity...not bleed...not tight" let me comment.

      Educate me Miss. Sugarbelly. A virgin who didn't bleed after 3 rounds of sex supposedly bled 7 days later (in my absence). And the size of my dick...look at your arm...

      Yea, I wish I was that ignorant.

      And about being tight/not tight, stop speculating.

      It seems you took this more personal than I did. I'm guessing a guy put you or someone close to you in such situation.

      Anyway, I appreciate you for commenting. Don't attempt to insult next time. I'm nice but my fingers are as worse as my tongue.

      Now you know.

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    2. When i said your dick i was speaking generally. So, i'll rephrase.

      If i guy thinks a girl isn't tight enough, then his dick to too small for that particular vagina.

      There are probably lots of other vaginas his dick would be huge in.

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    3. And bleeding a couple of days later is not abnormal either. My period supposedly ended a week ago, but yesterday i woke up with blood stained panties.... After four days of absolutely no blood.

      And i wasn't insulting you.

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    4. And sometimes your hymen doesn't break even after having sex multiple times. It depends on how your hymen is set up. Some people's hymen covers 90% of the vagina and so is more likely to break the first time in order for the guy to penetrate.

      Some people on the other hand, have hymens that only cover a small portion of the vagina or that are more flexible and so instead of breaking, is just pushed to the side during sex.

      Seriously, lots of men don't even know how women's bodies work and then pass judgement.

      Some people's hymens only break during childbirth. Meanwhile they've been having sex for like forever.

      Everything your girlfriend described in this post was 100% possible and 99% likely.

      It's happened to lots of girls and any doctor worth their salt will tell you the same.

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    5. Once again you skipped "I found out my dick wasn't the first to penetrate. Isn't that the definition of not being a virgin? All I wanted was her to admit, considering she was 4 years older. Call me a child but that hasn't stopped me from achieving a lot."

      My issue I have problem with was not the hymen/virginity debate but what she did to convince me. Why suggest going for a virginity test when she was aware a guy had been there before me? Why give my phone numbers to her mum to call me, telling me her daughter was a virgin? Why attempt to paint me as heartless?

      I like being reasonable and rationalise every action and my verdict here was she chose to be dishonest. Remove sentiments here, what she said was possible and that's for Wikipedia to decide. But with her it was impossible and that's for me to decide.

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    6. But how do you KNOW she wasn't a virgin??????

      As far as I can read, She NEVER admitted that she slept with anyone else, and neither did her mother.

      Did any man come up to you and personally say " I slept with your girlfriend and her name is XYZ?"

      My point is, to YOU it seems like she's going out of her way to "convince" you and therefore she must be lying whereas from what you've described the circumstances are totally plausible.

      Unless she later confessed (and you didn't write it here) - and maybe that's what you meant by "I found out my dick wasn't the first to penetrate" and unless there is a complaining witness (i.e. a Man who claims he had sex with her before you), I'm not sure what concrete proof you have that she didn't lose her virginity to you.

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    7. I'm sure that was what I meant by "I found out my dick wasn't the first to penetrate".

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    8. Oh so she confessed? Or did a guy tell you?

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    9. She said it. But added something like "I doubt he went in deep".

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    10. Now SugaBelly's comments were sure on point. Ade, all the points she raised were valid. But your last comment clinched it.

      now all the comments above made a nice ending to the story..

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  3. I go wif d lady on dis one....I read d 'entire' story n all ya comments..no disrespect ade, ur really ignorant on dis...n I bliv d part abt her confession "....I dnt tink he went in deep" was to save urself, I doubt dats part of d original story, if she actually said it u'd av added it to d original story (n spare me on "I leave out details am nt as mean wen I write abt odas) dats nt d kind u leave out...am very well xperiencd wif women too* afta I read dis article (which is a very nice write up) I had to google 'hymen' I suggest u do dsame n read frm wikipedia d introductry part says it all and lemme quote frm thr "it is not possible to definitively determine whether a girl or woman is or is not a virgin by examining her hymen". U shd listen to sugabelly n I fink ur girl deserves an apology am nt sayin ur wrong bt wht if she was actually a virgin jst imagine d trauma she's gone thru n hw much u hurt her soul and yes! Ur frnd(s) mite av bin wrong too...for me I dnt do virgins *i shd also add dat wen women wet profusely d virgina tend to xpand limitlessly...for me I stay off virgins I jst fingered one yestaday (had d doubts too bt gav her d benefit)

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  5. Don't know how i ended up on your blog but you are kinda a dick.

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  6. I totally agree wif Sugabelly.... Nice write up gal

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  7. Ade, you have succeeded in keeping me up till this hour. i have read few of your articles and i must say, you are a fantastic writer. i was practically in that room with you and the babe. This piece brought up controversies which is cool,it just makes it all perfect.
    SUGABELLY, i have learnt a bit from you, good advocacy.

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  8. Nice Work Everyone

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  9. The whole writing is ignorance and full of shit

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  10. Lol are you sure you have had sex before, a girl only becomes loose when she is horny.

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  11. Ade is 100% right. Sugabelly is an ignorant dumb bitch who defends othet bitches

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  12. Big thumb up for autor! Easy to read anything is written. Good job!

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  14. we should all stop deceiving ourselves, according to ade's write up the babe is not even close to been a virgin.....

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